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Posted by: Team Compass

This Article Is For People Looking to Transform Their Life

If you're not getting the results you want in:

🟥 Your finances

🟥 Your relationships

🟥 Your health

🟥 Your spirituality

It’s because of your leadership ability

And leadership is influence—nothing less, nothing more.

Influence is the ability to guide and shape the emotions of people—

which in turn drive their actions and results.

But the first person you must learn to influence…

is yourself.

Do You Want to Know Why?

1. HEARTBREAK

The reason most people struggle to effectively influence themselves is that they’ve been conditioned to remain in a state of quiet and perpetual heartbreak.

And heartbreak isn’t just what happens after a breakup.

Heartbreak is what happens any time reality doesn’t meet your expectations, more specifically your demands.

You see we place demands on 3 core things:

2. WHEN OUR DEMANDS AREN'T MET

We begin awfulizing the situation, making it seem worse than it is… Which leads to a low frustration tolerance, which often causes emotional over or underreactions… And then we begin condemning, judging, and labeling: life, other people, and ourselves.

And so this process causes us to experience perpetual pain and suffering AKA heartbreak.

Now a demand is simply a rule with a threat.

“X must _____, or else ____.”

It might sound something like:

“Life must be fair or else I’ll get angry.”

But most reasonable people can agree that life isn’t always fair, and that’s just reality.

So it’s really counterproductive to get angry at something that is true, wouldn’t you agree?

It’d be like getting mad that the Sun is hot, that’d be a waste of time.

3. THESE RULES AND DEMANDS WE HAVE ON LIFE, PEOPLE, AND OURSELVES OFTEN:

🛑 Are not logical

🛑 Are not entirely true

🛑 Are not serving you

🛑 Are unfair

🛑 Are unconscious

🛑 Are conflicting

But these demands we place, begin shaping our identity, our beliefs, values, and fears… And then we begin creating and telling ourselves stories that fit our model of the world.

Now there’s one story in particular that we tell more often and more frequently than any other story… and that’s our core story.

A core story is a simple story we repeat to ourselves over and over, explaining why our life is the way it is.

It allows justification as to why life might not be the way we want.

For example if one of your demands is that “Life must be fair or else I’ll get angry”, well now you can blame life being unfair as opposed to the real reason your life isn’t working, which is your own psychology.

4. NEURAL EMOTIONAL RECONDITIONING

By the way… NONE OF THIS IS YOUR FAULT.

Like I said before your nervous system and your emotional patterns, have all been conditioned over time. They’re wired into by accident.

The good news is you can rewire and recondition yourself to break free from these demands that create limiting beliefs, values, and fears that keep you in pain.

We use a process called Neural Emotional Reconditioning — or NER for short. It’s kinda like physical therapy for your mind, heart, and soul.

With NER we are able to identify your limiting beliefs, values, and fears and then we use various NER tools to help you recondition the emotional patterns — so you can rewrite your core story and finally break free from the cycle of telling the same limiting story.

5. N.E.R. IN EVERYTHING WE DO

We use NER in everything we do — whether it’s through:

⚫️ Online Support Group

🔴 1-on-1 Coaching

🟣 Or our in-person Live Workshops and Accountability Programs

Each path is the same but different pace — but all of them are rooted in the same proven process: Neural Emotional Reconditioning.

And NER is exactly what it sounds like — we help you recondition your nervous system and emotional patterns to align with your true identity — so you can build the life you actually want and attract the relationships you truly desire.

The best part is that NER works really fast.

That’s what Compass is all about.

So if you’re ready to create a real long-lasting change quickly…

You’re in the right place.

Team Compass

Team Compass cultivates, curates, and shares Compass Trainings' stories and core principles to help others achieve transformation.

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